How to Contact a Girl That's Mad at You

When you've really messed up and she doesn't even want to hear your name - let alone speak to you - have to be careful about how you contact her. Find out the most delicate, yet effective way to get in touch with your girl (and seek her forgiveness) after the jump.

Steps

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    Don't be pushy, If she is mad at you, don't try to force her to speak to you. You need to win her back.
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    Write her a letter, Girls love letters for a number of reasons. She loves knowing that you took time out of your day to think of her and write down your feelings. She loves having something tangible that she can always refer back to when she wants to remind herself that she is special to you
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    In your letter, APOLOGIZE. I know a lot of times it is hard for a guy to truly admit he was wrong. BUT you need to, she'll respect you for it.
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    Make her smile. Draw her a little picture, write a poem, whatever. It doesn't have to be perfect, if you can't draw then make an effort, she'll appreciate the fact that you tried for her.
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    Give her a bit of time. It's harder to work with someone who hasn't cooled off yet. Give her a few hours to let off some steam.
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    If you have the guts, the most meaningful thing to do is call her. Your apology will mean more if she hears it from your voice. If you have no guts, send her an email or MSN her. Make sure you make it sound meaningful.
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    To really make an impact, go see her. Take her flowers, if she is into that type of thing and sincerely apologize.
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    Promise never to do what you did to make her angry. This will mean a lot to her, and she will probably forgive you.
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    If she doesn't accept at first, give her more time and keep trying to apologize. Some girls can really hold a grudge, but you have to use their own weaknesses against them. If they love bears, take them a stuffed one. If they love music, sing them a song.
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    Show her that you care, and apologize from your heart. Tell her how much she means to you.

Tips

  • Be open and honest.
  • Tell her things you love about her.
  • Make her feel loved at all times.
  • Remind her of great times you two had.
  • Be genuine.
  • Compliment her.

Warnings

  • Don't pester her impossibly. If she keeps refusing and gets angrier, she will be angry at you and maybe continue to hold a grudge.

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Categories: Dating