How to Love a Capricorn Man

Three Methods:Attracting a Capricorn ManDating a Capricorn ManBeing Intimate with a Capricorn Man

It can be confusing to figure out the best ways love a Capricorn man. Sometimes, he can seem cold, formal and hard to be intimate with. It can be very discouraging at first. Once you come to understand some common Capricorn characteristics, you can make it a little easier to make your way into his inner circle and his heart.

Method 1
Attracting a Capricorn Man

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    Don't dig into his personal life. Capricorns have a suspicious nature.[1] If you press him too hard for information, you will likely have a difficult time earning his trust. You will want to avoid prying about his past or other areas that are too personal if you haven't yet won his trust.
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    Be patient. The first thing you have to learn in order to love a Capricorn man is to be patient. A Capricorn man will not give his love to just anyone. He will trust gradually as you show him that you are just as dedicated to commitment.[2]
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    Stick to your plans. If you have a date at a specific time, don't be late. A Capricorn man likes to make firm plans and seeks out dependable partners that will see things through.[3] Breaking plans or changing things at the last minute without discussing it will likely frustrate him.
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    Have interesting conversations. This will help you to get beyond a Capricorn man's formal exterior and engage the quirky, charming man inside. Capricorn men often very reserved, witty and have a dry sense of humor, so spark up quiet, intelligent conversations.
    • Choose outings that make a good environment for conversations. Capricorns prefer quiet dinners out or at home. Avoid bringing him to a loud bar or party. He will just get bored or annoyed.
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    Dress elegantly. A Capricorn man is very sensual, but his drive for social status and success will ultimately determine if he thinks of you as a potential partner. Avoid wearing clothes that are too tight or revealing. Dress in mature, conservative clothes. Pick out something you would wear to dinner with his parents.
    • You don't need to be a stunner to get his attention. Capricorns prefer intellect over beauty.
    • If you have glasses, wear them. They can make you seem more intellectual.
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    Attend work functions. You are likely to find a Capricorn man at places where he can climb the ladder and better his social status. This means you aren't likely to find a Capricorn at usual dating spots like bars or night clubs. His idea of an exciting night out is very likely the company holiday party. Look for a Capricorn man at work-related events or networking conventions, or social events like a charity drive.

Method 2
Dating a Capricorn Man

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    Be direct. If you need to tell him something and are not sure how to do so, get straight to the point. Don't talk in circles, tell him how you feel and why.
    • Capricorns like to be in charge, but will listen to reason. Instead of trying to get your way by arguing the loudest, have rational discussions when tough issues come up.
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    Support his dreams and goals. Capricorns are very driven and will want a long-term mate to be supportive of his desire for success.[4] Discuss the future, and find out what sort of accomplishments he aspires to achieve. He will really appreciate it.
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    Do not be insecure. Once you have earned the love of a Capricorn man, he will be a loyal partner to you. When he tells you that he loves you, you will see he truly means it.[5]
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    Notice the things he does for you. When a Capricorn does something for you, he is showing his affection. A Capricorn will not likely speak openly about his feelings and love for you, but he will show they care.
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    Don't be surprised when he is working late. It likely isn't a sign that he is avoiding you or needs some space. Try to remember how driven he is to reach his goals. He will put duties and responsibilities ahead of his emotional needs.[6] Capricorns tend to be workaholics, so you might have to compete with work quite often.
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    Be honest. Capricorns usually have a lot of integrity. He expects a love interest will reciprocate the same kind of honesty. If you betray him, you may never be able to regain the same level of trust.

Method 3
Being Intimate with a Capricorn Man

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    Make the first move. If you are just starting to get involved with a Capricorn man, you might need to act first to spark something physical. Since he likes to create friendships before getting involved in something more serious, you might have to take the initiative.
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    Explore your sexuality together. A Capricorn man loves to be masterful in the bedroom. Try reading the Kama Sutra together and let him try to perfect new moves. This will keep him aroused.[7]
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    Let him dominate you in bed. Capricorn men like to take charge, so let him control things at first. Once you have satisfied his desire to conquer, then show him what you can do.


  • If you are friends with a Capricorn man but want more, don't give up. Many great relationships have developed from a Capricorn's friendship.

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