How to Win Back the Love of Your Life After Cheating

Do you love someone but have completely messed it up? Losing the love of your life is one of the saddest things that can happen to anyone. Especially when you know there's no one to blame but yourself. But the thing is if they're the love of your life and you're theirs, then it may be possible to get them back.


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    Be honest. You just cheated on the love of your life. You need to look deep inside yourself to figure out why you did this and then be completely honest with your partner. Whatever trust they had in you is going to be completely shattered and lying about what you've done is only going to make matters worse. Step up and be open about what you've done.
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    Apologize. Say that you're sorry and beg for forgiveness. What YOU did was your fault... not the fault of your partner. You need to let them know that as they will struggle to deal with what you've done.
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    Cut off all contact. If you haven't already, end things with the other party NOW! It is important that your partner can see that all contact with this other person is over and that they mean nothing to you. Let your partner know that you want to be with your partner and your partner only.
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    Communicate. Your partner is going to no longer be able to trust you. If you really love them and want them back then you're going to have to make a few sacrifices of your own. Tell them everything they want to know. Be honest & open. If they want your passwords or want to see your phone, do it. Show them that you're willing to be honest and completely open with all areas in your life. This is an important step to gaining back their trust and showing how much you love them.
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    Accommodate. The love of your life is going to be hurting a lot and most likely the only person they want to turn to is the person that has done the hurting. So if they ask you for something do it. If they ask for space, give it to them. If they ask you to spend more time with them, spend more time. Show how much your willing to do for them.
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    Fight. Yes you made a mistake. A massive one. But if you truly love this person and you know that they love you then fight for what you had. Remind them of all the happy times you spent together. Shower them with love; give them flowers, a meaningful card, little gifts... anything to show them that you love and care for them. Be the Most Romantic Boyfriend ever| Make your partner feel special & loved. Show them that there is no one who could possibly love them more, after all they are the love of your life.


  • Girls are hard to read. They generally say one thing but mean another. Be careful of this. If she is struggling to let you go, then she still loves and cares for you. Use this while it lasts or she will let you go for good.
  • Don't place blame, or try to justify your actions. Nothing but admitting fault and apologizing, and communicating about the problem will help the situation.
  • If they don't want to talk to you, leave them alone. Give them the space they need. IF they really love you and you are the love of their life, they will contact you eventually.
  • Their friends are going to be protective of them and more than likely suggest that they end things with you permanently. Be aware of this and don't refute any thing they say. Acknowledge it and respond with how you're going to get past it together and show them how much you love your partner by respecting them and doing what they ask.


  • It will take a long time to get through this and your partner will continue to hurt over your actions. Remember that when you feel like your partner is being a nag or invading your personal space. Don't get get angry or say that it is time for you guys to move on. This will only push them further away.

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